Relationships are definitely not as simple as they look in Hollywood movies. An amorous look, butterflies in the stomach, a pure heart – it’s more about amorousness than love. Everyone wants to find a person whose feelings will last across time.
Today promellu describes situations that characterize not just an enamored guy but a man who is truly in love.
1. He Will Pursue You
Men are natural hunters, and one of the signs (not sure anyway) that he loves you is that he wants to chase you. Make no mistake that he is not pursuing you by means that he is shy, no, if a man wants a lady, he goes out for her.
Some ladies miss this sign and start chasing the man instead of being the other way around. If he can’t physically confront you, there are other channels he can use, he’ll call or text you. He will take some effort to get you.
If you find that he is not giving you the attention you deserve, take a look and make your decision. A man in love will actively pursue his wife. That’s one of the real signs that he loves you.
I know ladies who started their relationship by being the ones who made calls, texted, and dating, later they started complaining about how indifferent their men had become. I reminded them how they took on men’s responsibilities at the beginning of the relationship. Let the men do their job while you do it, it is not in your job description to chase a man, let him do it.
2. Your life is getting better
Yes, adding to your world should make things easier for you. True love will not make you fall asleep. You lose when you do not experience true love – you lose respect, the ability to be independent, friends and family, and even the ability to think clearly.
True love is meant to give your life a whole new meaning and make things brighter for you. Your husband respects your interests and responsibilities. He will help you fulfill your dreams by being a driving force that will make you achieve something. He will trust and support your life goals.
He will not be jealous of your performance, he will be happy and want you to do more. If you find that your family, some vital relationships, things, and even time are lost because you are in a relationship with a man, you really need to control that relationship.
Being in love can make you blind to some red flags and also have reasons and excuses as to why you should lose these things, but check them closely. A man in love wants to help you maintain extended relationships, it’s not just about the two of you, after all, you’re part of an extended body, just like him.
He will not play games with your mind by making you think if he is real or not, it will be lively and clear. He will not make you uncomfortable by saying one and giving the other, he will give promises he can keep, and will not make you feel bad about yourself. This is one of the real signs that he loves you.
3. His words correspond to his actions